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Lucinda Hall's avatar

My dear husband of 58 years just died. My first experience of death up front and very personnel. Much of my past positive experience has had to kick in and be wiling to listen to others with more experience of death than myself. This was a new test. I am surprised at many of my reactions, some quite animal, some objective, some very emotional. I often now hear my husband's voice as if his experiences have somehow become mine. His good advice comes at me when getting too emotional. Also, I have STORIES which I read or have read and they come to mind, many which now fit in to this new experience whereas before I wondered if some ever would, if you see what I mean. It is good to have a whole wealth of stories to call on. What I also have is a firm belief that my husband is back where he belongs wherever that is. At death, he looked so calm, so peaceful, so beautiful, as if he had just put his hand in the hand of God and was whisked away, transformed somehow. One of my oddest reactions was to look back at our life together and to be overwhelmed by how quickly our 58 years seemed in hindsight. Life is fleeting. Use every second, every minute to keep learning, but also to relax and be glad in all that you may have already learned and to keep going no matter what and have fun. Love is becoming more understandable to me. And one last thing. I think all my Micromastery of organising projects like seminars, lectures, club events, stalls for different groups, being a reluctant leader, have all kicked in when organising my husband's Funeral and now his Ashes' Interment. I know this sounds odd. Also, when death of a loved one hits you, a huge amount of intuition is needed. Let your Intuition get a grip when needed and follow it. Close Death is an experience which covers all parts of the brain, I think.

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Kevin Byron's avatar

How to Develop Analogies (This is based on two tables - one for Target and the other for the Base domain that could not be attached here - if anyone would like a copy e-mail kcbyron2@gmail.

1. Describe in a few words, the abstract idea (Target Domain) you wish to communicate by analogy.

2. Brainstorm a few characteristics, features or mechanisms of this abstract idea.

3. Moving to the ‘Base Domain’, and without having any specific Base (Analogy) in mind,

write up to 3 different random analogical associations you have with each of the Target characteristics.

4. When you have sufficient associations for each of the Target characteristics, scan through them and see if there are words that appear more often than the others in the analogical associations. Use this as your ‘Selected Base Domain’

5. Write a few notes summarising the selected Base in terms of the Target characteristics. Finally write a couple of sentences describing the original Abstract Idea in terms of the selected Base analogy that you could use. Note: It’s useful to check the limitations with the analogy, and test it out with your colleagues.

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